我是老王

Resist temptation and endure loneliness; only then can we provide each other with the greatest sense of security, and the path of love will be smooth.
Once, more than one friend advised me to say goodbye to being single, yet I am still single now, not because I am too picky, but because I feel that I am not yet suitable for a woman to entrust her life to me. I do not want to delay a girl's lifelong happiness because of my selfishness; even if others do not think so, I would regret it for life if I did.
My friends say: although you are a post-90s person, your thoughts are quite feudal and cannot accept the somewhat excessive ideas about relationships nowadays. Indeed, I admit that my thoughts differ somewhat from contemporary ideas; this mindset or thought did not form overnight, and of course, changing it is not a matter of a moment. To be honest, I do not want to change my current life.
Some people say that not dating in college is wasting the romantic and leisurely college life. Indeed, college life is leisurely, but have you ever thought about who provided you with this leisurely living environment? When you are relaxed, have you thought about your hardworking parents, who leave early and return late, who sweat profusely in summer, and who still sweat in winter? If you think of any one of these scenes, you would not say such things. Of course, my words are not aimed at anyone in particular.
Others say that one should start dating early, that one should take action in their freshman year, or else good girls will be taken by others. I admit that this statement is not without reason; I just want to share my thoughts. We all know that many people enter college far away from their hometowns, coming to study in a different place, and many come to school alone, without relatives, friends, or classmates. This can be very lonely and dull. Facing many things they have never even heard of before, one can feel very lonely and helpless, longing for companionship or help. If a handsome guy/girl talks to you or offers silent support during this time, it is easy to spark a "spark of love." Please note that this so-called "spark of love" is not true love, but rather an extreme desire to escape loneliness and helplessness. I have said all this just to express my own thought—a nonsensical idea.
In freshman year, one should not date, as it may be that she/he cannot endure loneliness. If two people come together for this reason, such a relationship will not go far and will certainly not have a good outcome.
If someone asks: even if a beautiful girl confesses to you now, would you still refuse? Hehe, I might have to think about whether to accept this love in loneliness!
Resist temptation and endure loneliness; only such love can be trusted and is worthy of being entrusted.
P.S. I have no malice towards couples who get together in their freshman year and hope that those people can last until the end, entering the marriage hall they both long for. This article merely expresses my nonsensical viewpoint, and readers can take it lightly and not take it seriously.